Moving to Australia: What You Must Know About Bringing the Children.

by BobinOz on February 3, 2010

What crosses your mind when you think about the Hague Convention? Is it…

  • a) the sequel to the Geneva Convention?
  • b) a collection of men in grey suits meeting to talk about legal stuff in a place called The Hague?
  • c) an international law you should seriously consider before moving to Australia with your children?

So, as this is a blog about moving to Australia, I would imagine most of you will probably have plumped for c). And it is the right answer. But why?

Let me explain.

Without going into too much depth, the Hague Convention deals with international child abductions and applies to all countries that have signed up to the agreement, which includes all of North America and most of South America, Europe and Australia.

This lot…….

Hague convention members Moving to Australia: What You Must Know About Bringing the Children.
Hague Convention Members Map

And what the Hague Convention rules is that no child under the age of 16 can be removed from their country of “habitual residence” without the consent of BOTH parents.

Why is this so important for parents moving to Australia?

Because sometimes, this happens. Husband and wife move to Australia with their kids. They split up for whatever reason. The wife wants to go back to the UK to be with her mother and, of course, she wants to take the kids with her.

To do that, she needs the permission of the father. No permission means she can’t take them. How many fathers would agree to their children living 11,000 miles away? Not many.

Result: The separated wife must stay in Australia if she wants to be with her kids. She is now living in a country she no longer wants to stay in, she is without the support of her pre-marital family and friends and there’s not much she can do about it.

Obviously this story can be told many ways. The husband may want to return to be with his mum, or go back to be with his old friends, or perhaps he yearns for his old local pub. Well, he can’t force his wife and/or his children to follow him without the children’s mothers permission.

You don’t even have to be splitting up. Perhaps just one of you hates Australia, husband or wife, and insists on going back to whichever country you emigrated from. Well, without the permission of your other half, you’ll be going back by yourself. Without your kids. Alone.

“But I’m their mother, I’m a British citizen, I was born in Britain, my kids were born in Britain, surely I can take them back home?’

No, you can’t. Not without the fathers permission. Otherwise it’s abduction and the courts will order your children be returned to their country of habitual residence.

What is their country of habitual residence? It is purposefully undefined by the Convention. But basically, it’s the country you have chosen to live in. My daughters “habitual residence” is now Australia. She is not an Australian National, she was not born in Australia, she does not have Australian citizenship.

But we live here, so Australia is Elizabeth’s habitual residence.

Nobody mentions this, not the Australian Government, not the MARA migration agents and none of the application forms. I never knew about this when I moved, but luckily, it isn’t an issue for us and hopefully it won’t be an issue for you. But for a small yet significant minority, it will be.

So I thought I’d mention it. Because it is important.

kids Moving to Australia: What You Must Know About Bringing the Children.Of course, I am not a lawyer and I am only expressing the Hague Convention as I understand it. Always seek legal advice from a qualified professional.

Related posts:

  1. Is Australia a Good Place to Bring Up Children?
  2. Moving to Australia and Moving Back to England Again.
  3. Moving to Australia – Part Fourteen
  4. Moving to Australia – Part Twelve
  5. Moving to Australia – Part Seven


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{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

maria January 8, 2011 at 3:37 pm

hi,am from europe i been here 5 years, i have a child i want to go back home but my ex says no!!!!

what can i do??

thank you

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BobinOz January 11, 2011 at 7:08 pm

Hi Maria

So sorry to hear about your situation, but you are not alone, many people are in the same boat. What can you do? Very little, as I understand it, but you should at least see a solicitor.

May I suggest you go over to an excellent forum about moving to Australia and read the very long thread all about this subject. You will also meet people in exactly the same situation that you are in.

You can read it by clicking this link… pomsinoz/hague

Hope it helps and good luck.

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maria January 11, 2011 at 10:46 pm

thank you for your help,am so so sad, my ex is keeping me here to punish me cause i dont love him anymore, he made me a promise to let me go with baby if he did not like to come and i woul go back to my family if marriage did not work…what to say how can i lease my son only 4 ang go back to italy?? or i stay with his father i dont get along and get older in oz for another 10 years i’ll be 40 it will be too late for my life to start again??and by then my son 14 can decide to come with me or stay here?? help please with your opinions!
grazie!

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BobinOz January 15, 2011 at 7:35 pm

It is a very difficult situation and I do feel for you. But I am afraid my opinions can’t help you. But for what it’s worth, the only opinion I do have is that I think you would hate your life with out your child so maybe your task is to learn to love Australia.

Sorry, but it’s all I’ve got.

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Ange January 9, 2012 at 9:15 am

I currently live in NZ with my daughter. My partner (ex) is going to move to Melbourne. Do i need his permission for me and my daughter to move to Brisbane once he takes off to Melbourne? I would think not as Brisbane is closer to Melbourne than NZ….
Please help? I want to move to Brisbane to be with my sister and her bubba to be.

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BobinOz January 9, 2012 at 6:16 pm

That’s a question for a lawyer, because whatever you do you want it to be watertight. I would think you would be able to sort something out, there’d be no advantage to anybody for you to stay in NZ.

Good luck!

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